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MUTLULUK YOLUNDA <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

25<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

VES\u0130LE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Haz\u0131rlayan<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Dr. Abdurrazzak Ahmed Hasan<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Terc\u00fcme ve Dizgi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Fikri G\u00f6nc\u00fc<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6ns\u00f6z<\/span><\/h3>\n

Allah’a hamd, Res\u00fbl\u00fcne ve onun \u00e2line, ashab\u0131na, onun g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi yolu takip ederek hidayete erenlere salat ve selam olsun!<\/span><\/h3>\n

Allah’a hamd eder ve sadece O’ndan yard\u0131m dileriz! G\u00fcnahlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n aff\u0131 i\u00e7in sadece O’na yalvar\u0131r, sadece O’na tevbe ederiz! Nefislerimizin \u015ferrinden, amellerimizin k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden Allah’a s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131z! Allah kime hidayet verirse, onu bir daha sapt\u0131racak yoktur ve O, kimi sapt\u0131r\u0131rsa art\u0131k ona bir hidayet verici de yoktur.1<\/a> Allah’tan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7 bir ilah olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na, O’nun hi\u00e7bir orta\u011f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahadet ederim ve yine \u015fahadet ederim ki, Hz. Muhammed onun kulu ve res\u00fbl\u00fcd\u00fcr. <\/span><\/h3>\n

Mutluluk -dinleri, \u0131rklar\u0131, meslekleri, makamlar\u0131 v.s. halleri ne olursa olsun- b\u00fct\u00fcn be\u015feriyetin ula\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00e2yedir. Allah’\u0131n izniyle, biz bu kitap\u00e7\u0131kta mutlulu\u011fun tarifini, \u00e7e\u015fitlerini ve ona g\u00f6t\u00fcren yollar\u0131 konu alaca\u011f\u0131z. Hedefimiz ula\u015fabildi\u011fimiz insanlara, mutluluk yolunda bir umut \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 yakmak ve onlar\u0131n da d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hirette mutlu olan insanlar\u0131n kervan\u0131na kat\u0131lmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilme yolunda onlara faydal\u0131 tavsiyelerde bulunmakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Y\u00fcce Allah’tan beni sizleri her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015fimizde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 k\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 ve bizleri her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hataya ve g\u00fcnaha d\u00fc\u015fmekten korumas\u0131n\u0131 niyaz ederim!<\/h2>\n

MUTLULU\u011eUN TAR\u0130F\u0130<\/h2>\n

Mutluluk kelimesi s\u00f6zl\u00fckte, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc ve kederli ya\u015fam\u0131n tersi olarak tarif edilir.<\/h2>\n

E\u011fitimciler ve psikologlar ise mutlulu\u011fu \u015f\u00f6yle tarif ediyorlar: Mutluluk bir insan\u0131n kendisini devaml\u0131 huzurlu, rahat ve sevin\u00e7li hissetmesidir. Bu g\u00fczel duygu ki\u015finin bedeninin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131n rahat ve huzurlu oldu\u011funu hissetmesi ile ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/h2>\n

Ger\u00e7ek mutlulu\u011fun ana \u015fartlar\u0131 \u015funlard\u0131r:<\/h2>\n

1-Ki\u015finin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n iyi olmas\u0131.<\/h2>\n

2-Ki\u015finin mutluluk i\u00e7in do\u011fru yol \u00fczerinde olmas\u0131.<\/h2>\n

3-Ki\u015finin hayat\u0131ndan memnun olmas\u0131.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, mutluluk; dirhem veya dinarla sat\u0131n al\u0131nacak bir nesne, kitap sat\u0131rlar\u0131nda aranan bir bilgi, \u00e7antada ta\u015f\u0131nabilen bir e\u015fya elde edilebilen madde, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclen, fiyat bi\u00e7ilen bir meta, koklanan bir g\u00fcl, hasad\u0131 olan bir ziraat da de\u011fildir. Mutluluk; ki\u015finin kalbinde hissetti\u011fi bir sevin\u00e7 ve huzur, g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcnde hissetti\u011fi bir rahatl\u0131k ve ferahl\u0131kt\u0131r. Mutluluk; akl\u0131n ve bedenin huzur ve s\u00fck\u00fbnet i\u00e7inde severek raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu bir ya\u015fant\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Bu huzur ve mutluluk, sadece ki\u015finin Allah’a iman etmesi, O’na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmas\u0131, g\u00fczel amel i\u015flemesi ile ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir. Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman hayatta cereyan eden her \u015feyin Allah’\u0131n h\u00fckm\u00fc ve takdiri dahilinde oldu\u011funu bilirse, olup bitmi\u015f olaylara kendini helak edercesine \u00fcz\u00fclmez, bunal\u0131m ve strese d\u00fc\u015ferek kederli olmaz. Bilakis kendisi i\u00e7in takdir edilen bu musibetleri ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sab\u0131r, s\u00fck\u00fbnet ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131layarak sabr\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah’tan bekler. Yine kendisi i\u00e7in Allah taraf\u0131ndan takdir edilen her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hay\u0131r i\u00e7in de sevinerek Allah’a \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr eder. Zira o bilir ki, kendisine gelen bu mus\u00eebet Yaratan’dand\u0131r ve bu mus\u00eebeti g\u00fcc\u00fc ne olursa olsun Allah’tan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir g\u00fc\u00e7 geri \u00e7eviremeyecektir.. \u0130bn Abbas (Allah ondan ve babas\u0131ndan raz\u0131 olsun!) Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’den \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“Bil ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00fcmmet sana bir fayda vermek i\u00e7in toplansa Allah’\u0131n sana yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 faydadan ba\u015fka bir \u015feyle fayda veremezler. Yine b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00fcmmet sana bir zarar vermek i\u00e7in toplansa Allah’\u0131n sana yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zarardan ba\u015fka bir \u015feyle zarar veremezler. Kalemler kald\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f sayfalar kurumu\u015ftur.”2<\/a><\/h2>\n

Bu kaideye g\u00f6re bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman kendisine sevindirici bir \u015fey isabet etti\u011finde bu nimet i\u00e7in Allah’a \u015f\u00fckredecek ve dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile bu \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr onun hayr\u0131na olacakt\u0131r. \u015e\u00e2yet ayn\u0131 m\u00fcsl\u00fcman kendisine bir zarar isabet etti\u011finde, sabredecek olsa bu sabr\u0131 dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile m\u00fck\u00e2fatland\u0131r\u0131lmak suretiyle olay kendisi i\u00e7in hay\u0131rla sonu\u00e7lanm\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte \u00e7e\u015fitli renk ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrleri ile b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fik yol ve y\u00f6ntemler deneyerek arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek kalp huzuru ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 bu ger\u00e7ekte yatmaktad\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Hasta bir ki\u015fi mutlulu\u011funu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan kurtulmada g\u00f6recektir. Fakir bir ki\u015fi de mutlulu\u011fu zengin olmakta, zengin bir ki\u015fi mutlulu\u011fu daha y\u00fcksek makam ve mevki sahibi olmakta g\u00f6recektir. Ama ne sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmak, ne zengin olmak ve ne de y\u00fcksek makam sahibi olmak tek ba\u015flar\u0131na insan\u0131 mutlu etmeye yetmeyecektir. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki maddi imk\u00e2nlar Yarat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n emir ve tavsiyeleri do\u011frultusunda kullan\u0131lmazsa bu g\u00fczel imk\u00e2nlar insanl\u0131k i\u00e7in bir felaket arac\u0131 olacak ve dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki her \u015fey tersine i\u015flemeye ba\u015flayacak ve insanl\u0131k her t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2n\u0131 seferber ederek huzuru ararken, k\u0131s\u0131r bir d\u00f6ng\u00fc i\u00e7inde bir bunal\u0131mdan \u00f6tekine s\u00fcr\u00fcklenip duracakt\u0131r. Allah sizi ve bizi b\u00f6yle durumlara d\u00fc\u015fmekten koruyarak hepimizi saadet ehlinden eylesin!<\/h2>\n

MUTLULU\u011eUN T\u00dcRLER\u0130<\/h2>\n

\u0130bn Kayyim’in “Mutluluk Evinin Anahtar\u0131” adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 t\u00fcr mutluluk oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemektedir:<\/h2>\n

Birinci T\u00fcr: GER\u00c7EK MUTLULUK.<\/h2>\n

\u0130kinci T\u00fcr: BEDENSEL MUTLULUK.<\/h2>\n

\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc T\u00fcr: G\u00d6R\u00dcNT\u00dc MUTLULU\u011eU.<\/h2>\n

Birinci T\u00fcr:<\/h2>\n

GER\u00c7EK MUTLULUK<\/h2>\n

Ger\u00e7ek mutluluk, insan\u0131n ruhunun ve kalbinin tadacak oldu\u011fu mutluluktur. \u0130nsana bu mutlulu\u011fu faydal\u0131 ilim ve onun g\u00fczel meyveleri kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Bu, durum ve \u015fartlar ne olursa olsun devaml\u0131 olan bir mutluluktur. Yani insano\u011flunun hayat yolculu\u011funun \u00fc\u00e7 merhalesi olan; d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131, kabir hayat\u0131 ve \u00e2hiret hayat\u0131nda kendisine e\u015flik edecek olan bir mutluluktur. \u0130nsano\u011flu bu mutlulukla y\u00fcksek derecelere ula\u015farak olgunla\u015f\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Bu mutluluk, mal ve m\u00fclk\u00fcn kaybedildi\u011fi yerde bunlar\u0131n yerini alarak insan\u0131 teskin eder. Bu mutlulu\u011fu tatmayan ne bunun kadrini bilir, ne de onu elde edebilmek i\u00e7in onun pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fer. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, biraz sab\u0131r ciddiyet gerektirdi\u011fi i\u00e7in bu mutlulu\u011fu aramay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezler. Bu saadet (mutluluk) di\u011fer b\u00fct\u00fcn saadet \u00e7e\u015fitlerinin tersine ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck ciddiyet ve gayret gerektirmektedir. Zira di\u011fer saadet \u00e7e\u015fitleri insan\u0131n nasibi ile ilgili olup bazen miras ve hibe yoluyla istemeyene bile nasip olabilir.<\/h2>\n

\u0130lim mutlulu\u011funa gelince buna ancak gayretli olan, iste\u011finde ve niyetinde sad\u0131k olanlar nail olabilirler.<\/h2>\n

K\u0131ymetli \u015feylerin etraf\u0131 daima a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor duvarlarla \u00e7evrilmi\u015ftir. Ger\u00e7ek saadete ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in bu saadetin etraf\u0131ndaki a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken duvarlar\u0131 a\u015farak me\u015fakkat k\u00f6pr\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc ge\u00e7mek laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ge\u00e7ici zevkleri ve rahat\u0131 se\u00e7enler elbette bu mutlulu\u011fa ula\u015famazlar. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu bu mutlulu\u011fun lezzetini ve kadrini bilmezler. \u015eayet \u0130nsanlar bunun k\u0131ymetini bilmi\u015f olsalard\u0131 bunu elde etmek i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck sava\u015flar\u0131 yapmaya haz\u0131r olurlard\u0131. Yukar\u0131da belirtti\u011fimiz gibi, bu saadet yap\u0131lmas\u0131 nefse ho\u015f gelmeyen \u015feylerle \u00e7evrilmi\u015fdir. ve insanlar zorluklar\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki g\u00fczellikleri bilmediklerinden zahmete katlan\u0131p bu sa\u00e2dete ula\u015fmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze alamazlar. Burada \u015funu da s\u00f6yleyelim; bu hedefe ancak Allah’\u0131n fazl\u0131 kereminden nasibi olan insanlar ula\u015fabileceklerdir. Bu nasipte gayret olmadan gelip insan\u0131 bulmaz.<\/h2>\n

Bilinmelidir ki, Allah’a y\u00f6nelmek sa\u00e2detin as\u0131l kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah’a y\u00f6neli\u015ften almayan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc saadet ger\u00e7ek saadet olmaktan uzakt\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek mutlulu\u011fa ula\u015fmak isteyen ki\u015fi b\u00fct\u00fcn sevgisi, itaati, al\u00e7ak g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, umudu, korkusu, zikri, duas\u0131 vesaire ibadetleriyle tamamen Allah’a y\u00f6nelmelidir. Kulun hakikatini olu\u015fturan kalp ve ruh ancak Allah’\u0131 anmakla huzura kavu\u015fur. Allah’\u0131 anmaks\u0131z\u0131n ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen her t\u00fcrl\u00fc mutluluk ge\u00e7ici ve eksiktir.<\/h2>\n

\u0130bn Kayyim (Allah ondan raz\u0131 olsun!) \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/h2>\n

\u00abKalpte \u00f6yle bo\u015fluk vard\u0131r ki, o bo\u015flu\u011fu ancak Allah’a y\u00f6nelmek doldurabilir. Ve onda \u00f6yle bir \u0131ss\u0131zl\u0131k vard\u0131r ki, onu ancak Allah’a iman etmenin lezzeti giderebilir. Yine onda \u00f6yle bir h\u00fcz\u00fcn vard\u0131r ki, onu ancak Allah’\u0131 bilmenin kazand\u0131raca\u011f\u0131 sevin\u00e7 ve ger\u00e7ek bir ihlas giderebilir, yine onda \u00f6yle bir hasret ate\u015fi vard\u0131r ki, o ate\u015fi ancak Allah’\u0131n emir ve yasaklar\u0131na r\u0131za g\u00f6stermek, mah\u015fer g\u00fcn\u00fcne kadar O’nun kaza ve kaderine sabretmek s\u00f6nd\u00fcrebilir.\u00bb<\/h2>\n

Biliniz ki, tevhid\u00ee inanc\u0131n ve bu inan\u00e7 do\u011frultusunda insan\u0131n bilgi, beceri, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ve ilmini art\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131n insan\u0131n mevcut s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131ndan kurtulup huzura kavu\u015fmas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nemi vard\u0131r. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman, kendisine Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fcn\u00fcn o huzurlu hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rnek almal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun i\u00e7in de onun ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bize ula\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu ilahi risaleyi iyi bir \u015fekilde bilmeye ihtiya\u00e7 vard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte kalplere huzur ve ferahl\u0131k veren, ehlini en g\u00fczel ahlak ve ya\u015fant\u0131ya ula\u015ft\u0131ran ilim bu ilimdir.<\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim, bu ilmi elde etmeye gayret etmelisin! Bu ilmi kazand\u0131ktan sonra ciddi bir \u015fekilde amel etmelisin! Seni yaratana tevekk\u00fcl etmelisin! Hayata g\u00fcl! Hayat\u0131 m\u00fcmin karde\u015flerinle payla\u015farak mutlulu\u011fun zirvesinde olanlarla beraber ol! Unutma ki mutlulu\u011fun zirvesine sen de ula\u015fabilirsin! \u015eayet bir zorlukla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131rsan \u00f6ncelikle ona g\u00fcl\u00fcmse! Kalbinde umutsuzlu\u011fa kesinlikle yer verme! Sak\u0131n ola ki ba\u011fr\u0131n\u0131 yeyip bitirecek olan \u00e7ekemezlik hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na kap\u0131lma! B\u00fct\u00fcn iyiliklerini bo\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kartacak olan hasede d\u00fc\u015fmeden Allah’\u0131n senin i\u00e7in taksim etmi\u015f oldu\u011fu r\u0131zka raz\u0131 ol! \u015e\u00e2yet bu yolu takip edersen ger\u00e7ekten d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hirette sahihlerin ve ilim ehlinin kavu\u015fmu\u015f oldu\u011fu sa\u00e2dete kavu\u015facaks\u0131n. Bu sa\u00e2det \u00f6yle bir sa\u00e2dettir ki, \u015f\u00e2yet zenginler, makam sahipleri ve sultanlar bu saadetin lezzetini bilseler silah ku\u015fanarak bunu elde etmek i\u00e7in sava\u015f\u0131rlard\u0131.<\/h2>\n

Bak\u0131n\u0131z \u015eeyhul \u0130slam \u0130bn Teymiye \u015f\u00f6yle diyor:<\/h2>\n

“D\u00fcnyada \u00f6yle bir cennet vard\u0131r, ki o cennete giremeyen \u00e2hiret cennetine giremez.”<\/h2>\n

Burada size \u0130bn-i Teymiye’nin kendisi hapishanede iken s\u00f6ylemi\u015f oldu\u011fu \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc de hat\u0131rlatmak istiyorum:<\/h2>\n

“D\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131m bana ne yapabilirler ki!? Benim cennetim ve bah\u00e7em kalbimdedir. Ben bu cennet ve bah\u00e7emle yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. Onlar beni asla b\u0131rakmazlar. Hapsedilmem (Rabbimle) ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmamd\u0131r, \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmem \u015fah\u00e2dettir, yurdumdan \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131lmam seyahate \u00e7\u0131kmamd\u0131r.”<\/h2>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcyor musunuz, Allah’a iman edenin halini ve hayat anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131?! Bu anlay\u0131\u015fta olan bir insanda elbette her zaman huzur ve istikrar vard\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekten bu sa\u00e2deti ve dereceyi elde etmek \u00e7ok muhte\u015fem bir olayd\u0131r!!<\/h2>\n

\u0130kinci T\u00fcr:<\/h2>\n

BEDENSEL MUTLULUK<\/h2>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n v\u00fccudunda b\u00fct\u00fcn organlar\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6revini yaparsa bu durum \u015f\u00fcphesiz o ki\u015fiye bir mutluluk verecektir. \u0130nsano\u011flu, cismi ile de\u011fil kalbi ve ruhu ile de\u011ferlendirilir. Bedene g\u00f6re elbise neyse kalp ve ruha g\u00f6re cisim de odur. \u0130nsan\u0131n v\u00fccudu onun ruhunun hem kafesi, hem \u00e2leti ve hem de bine\u011fidir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bedenin s\u0131hhati, sa\u00e2deti, g\u00fczelli\u011fi ve iyili\u011fi ruhun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen bir durumdur, fakat bu ikisi aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131 bir etkile\u015fim ba\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, bedenin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131 elbette insana mutluluk verir ama bu mutluluk insan i\u00e7in yeterli ve devaml\u0131 de\u011fildir. Bilakis bu mutluluk ani olarak kaybolabilmektedir. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olman\u0131n mutlulu\u011funu ya\u015fayan fakat kalp ve ruhi mutluluktan mahrum olan insanlara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onlar\u0131n stres, bunal\u0131m ve sorunlar i\u00e7inde k\u0131vrand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bu durum da bize sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olman\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu yakalayabilmek i\u00e7in yeterli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermeye yeter.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem Karde\u015fim, s\u0131hhat nimeti \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir nimettir. Kim ki, bu nimeti mal-m\u00fclk gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclebilen nimetlerle de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye raz\u0131 olursa o ki\u015fi yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Zira elde edilmesi kolay olan birtak\u0131m nimetlerle elde edilmesi her zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan bir nimeti de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Tiyatro sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Leyla Murat hat\u0131rat\u0131nda e\u015finin ba\u015f\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en \u015fu k\u0131ssay\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle dile getirmektedir:<\/h2>\n

“E\u015fim basit bir tiyatro sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 idi. G\u00fcnlerden bir g\u00fcn \u015f\u00f6yle dedi:<\/h2>\n

-Bir hastal\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fmem pahas\u0131na da olsa bir milyon c\u00fcneyhim olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok arzu ederdim.<\/h2>\n

Ona \u015f\u00f6yle dedim:<\/h2>\n

-Sen hasta olduktan sonra sahip oldu\u011fun mal ne i\u015fe yarar ki!? \u015e\u00f6yle cevap verdi:<\/h2>\n

-Mal\u0131m\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n tedavisi i\u00e7in kullan\u0131r geri kalanla da rahat bir \u015fekilde ya\u015far\u0131m.<\/h2>\n

E\u015fim daha sonra bir milyon c\u00fcneyhten daha fazla para kazand\u0131. Fakat Allah onun ba\u015f\u0131na ci\u011fer kanseri musallat etti. E\u015fim bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bir milyon c\u00fcnehyten daha fazla para harcamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen \u015fifa bulamad\u0131. Kendisinin Allah’\u0131n verdi\u011fi nimetlerden bir \u00e7o\u011funu yemesi yasakt\u0131. O bu hal \u00fczerine bir m\u00fcddet ya\u015fad\u0131 ve sonunda \u00e7ok pi\u015fman ve kederli bir \u015fekilde \u00f6l\u00fcp gitti.”<\/h2>\n

\u015e\u00fcphesiz s\u0131hhatli olmak insan\u0131n mutlu olabilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir ko\u015fuldur. Bu nimet insan\u0131n elinden al\u0131n\u0131rsa o insan\u0131n mutlu olmas\u0131 art\u0131k \u00e7ok zordur. S\u0131hhat olmadan mutlulu\u011fu istemek insan\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcrecektir. Mutlu olabilmek i\u00e7in s\u0131hhatin yan\u0131nda rahat bir \u015fekilde ya\u015famam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacak di\u011fer hayat\u00ee ko\u015fullar\u0131n da yerine gelmesi laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu hayat\u00ee ko\u015fullar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda ki\u015fiyi d\u00fcnyada ve \u00e2hirette saadete kavu\u015fturacak olan Allah (Azze ve celle)’ye iman etmek gelmektedir. M\u00fcmin bir ki\u015fi sa\u011flam bedeni ile Allah’\u0131n emirlerini yerine getirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulacakt\u0131r. K\u00e2fir ki\u015fi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 v\u00fccudunu Allah’a isyanda kullanaca\u011f\u0131ndan bu o ki\u015fiye d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hirette bunal\u0131m ve azaptan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey kazand\u0131rmayacakt\u0131r. Bu nedenle bu toplumlarda stres, bunal\u0131m, keder, isyan, ruhi \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fc ve intihar olaylar\u0131n\u0131n nispeti \u00e7ok y\u00fcksektir.<\/h2>\n

D\u00fcnya \u00fclkelerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda di\u011fer memurlara g\u00f6re polislerin genelde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve kuvvetli insanlardan se\u00e7ildi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Buna ra\u011fmen “Orta Do\u011fu” gazetesinin 5823’\u00fcnc\u00fc say\u0131s\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir haber yer almaktad\u0131r:<\/h2>\n

“Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri’nde her sene ortalama 300 polis veya komiser intihar etmektedir. Bunlardan ortalama 10 ki\u015fi Newyork kentindendir. Polis ve komiserlerden intihar edenlerin say\u0131s\u0131 1987’den bu yana devaml\u0131 art\u0131\u015f g\u00f6stermektedir.”<\/h2>\n

S\u00fcbhanellah! S\u0131hhat, mal-m\u00fclk, hepsi var.. Ama buna ra\u011fmen milyonlar stres ve bunal\u0131mlar i\u00e7inde ya\u015f\u0131yor. \u0130ntihar edenler ise sadece bu bunal\u0131ml\u0131 hayata dayanamayan ki\u015filerdir. \u0130ntihar derecesine gelmeyen insanlar\u0131n ya\u015famakta olduklar\u0131 psikolojik ve toplumsal sorunlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc siz takdir edin. Onlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 vehm\u00ee veya ge\u00e7ici olarak mutlulu\u011fu yakalasa bile \u00e7ok ge\u00e7meden \u00f6nlerine \u00e7\u0131kan yeni sorunlar ve musibetlere yenik d\u00fc\u015fmektedirler.<\/h2>\n

\u0130man etmeyen insanlara bir hastal\u0131k isabet etti\u011finde bu durum onlar\u0131 inkisara s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilmektedir. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman karde\u015fim, ink\u00e2rc\u0131lara ve onlar\u0131n yolunda olan ki\u015filere isabet eden baz\u0131 hastal\u0131k musibetlere sabretme azmini ve bu sabr\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah’tan bekleme inan\u00e7 ve umudunu verecek olan nedir!? Bu konuda \u00e7are olarak iman etmekten ba\u015fka bir yol var m\u0131d\u0131r!? Tabii ki yoktur. \u0130man cevherinden uzak kalan insanlar\u0131n umutsuzlu\u011fa ve bunal\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015fmeleri g\u00e2yet normal bir \u015feydir. Amerikal\u0131 kad\u0131n bir yazar islam\u0131n kad\u0131nlara verdi\u011fi \u00f6nemi duyunca \u015f\u00f6yle demekten kendini alamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:<\/h2>\n

“\u015eayet durum anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi ise beni kendi toplumunuza g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcn ve orada islam\u0131n verdi\u011fi bu haklarla alt\u0131 ay ya\u015fad\u0131ktan sonra beni \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcn. (Yani bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m alt\u0131 ayl\u0131k bir s\u00fcre her \u015feye bedeldir. Ondan sonra \u00f6lsem de fark etmez) demi\u015ftir.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, Allah (S\u00fcbhaneh\u00fc ve Te\u00e2l\u00e2) bizi kendisine kulluk etmemiz i\u00e7in yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. O, bizi ger\u00e7ek mutlulu\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek yolu belirleyendir. O’nun g\u00f6stermi\u015f oldu\u011fu yolun d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131karsak kendi kendimizi ve toplumumuzu bunal\u0131mdan bunal\u0131ma sokmu\u015f oluruz.<\/h2>\n

\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc T\u00fcr<\/h2>\n

G\u00d6R\u00dcNT\u00dc MUTLULU\u011eU<\/h2>\n

Muhterem Karde\u015fim, bu t\u00fcr bir saadet insan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda geli\u015fen bir saadettir. Bu saadet ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan \u00f6d\u00fcn\u00e7 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir e\u015fyaya benzer. Bu \u00f6d\u00fcn\u00e7 al\u0131nan e\u015fyay\u0131 sahibi ne zaman isterse onu elimizden alabilir. Bu saadet, mal-m\u00fclk, varl\u0131k, makam ve benzeri \u015feylerin saadeti olarak \u00f6zetlenebilir. Bu t\u00fcr bir saadet insan\u0131 bir anda terk ederek ki\u015fiyi bir anda zelil bir hayata d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrebilir. Bu t\u00fcr bir saadet kendisine sahip olma bak\u0131m\u0131ndan ba\u015f\u0131 kel birisinin, amcas\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flunun s\u0131k olan sa\u00e7\u0131 ile \u00f6v\u00fcnmesine benzer. Yine bu saadet g\u00fczelli\u011fi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan insan\u0131n giydi\u011fi elbiseler ve ziynet e\u015fyalar\u0131 ile kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fczelli\u011fe benzer.<\/h2>\n

Alimin biri bir t\u00fcccar ile beraber bir gemide yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karlar. Bir m\u00fcddet sonra gemi \u00e7at\u0131rdayarak i\u00e7indeki ticaret mallar\u0131 ile birlikte batar. Gemideki t\u00fcccarlar kurtulurlar fakat art\u0131k onlar be\u015f paras\u0131z fakir insanlard\u0131r. Alim olan ki\u015fi bir k\u00f6ye ula\u015farak burada b\u00fcy\u00fck bir h\u00fcrmet ve ikram g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Kendisine derler ki: Kendi kavmine s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fin bir s\u00f6z veya nasihat var m\u0131d\u0131r? Bu soruya \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verir: “Onlara s\u00f6yleyiniz ki; \u015f\u00e2yet mal-m\u00fclk sahibi olmak isterseler gemi \u00e7at\u0131rday\u0131p batt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onunla birlikte kaybolan mallardan edinmesinler. Lakin (geminin batmas\u0131yla kaybolmayan) ilmi ticaret edinsinler.”<\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim, esas zenginlik ilim zenginli\u011fidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mal-m\u00fclk zenginli\u011fi ge\u00e7icidir. Bu konuda \u00f6rnek \u00e7oktur, fakat herhalde en \u00f6nemli \u00f6rnek Kur’an’da \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 zengin oldu\u011fu bildirilen Kar\u00fbn’un \u00f6rne\u011fidir. Sonu\u00e7 olarak onun mallar\u0131 sahip oldu\u011fu saraylarla beraber yerin dibine ge\u00e7irilerek, kendisine ve etraf\u0131ndakilere bu mallar\u0131n kendisini kurtaramayaca\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmi\u015ftir.<\/h2>\n

M\u00fcsl\u00fcman karde\u015fim, iman olmad\u0131ktan sonra zenginlik insana bir mutluluk vesilesi de\u011fil bir \u00e7iledir. Zira iman\u0131 olmayan zengin ki\u015finin b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi servetine servet katmakt\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu mallar\u0131 idare etmek, pazarlamas\u0131n\u0131 yapmak ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na insan\u0131 strese sokacak bir konudur. Ayr\u0131ca insanda var olan iflas etme ve mallar\u0131n\u0131 kaybetme korkusu da ayr\u0131 bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131d\u0131r. Ticari endi\u015feler y\u00fcz\u00fcnden intihar eden i\u015f adamlar\u0131n\u0131n hi\u00e7 g\u00fcndemden d\u00fc\u015fmemesi bu konuda yeterli bir \u00f6rnektir.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, Avrupal\u0131 zengin i\u015f adamlar\u0131na bir bak! Ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131 nas\u0131ld\u0131r? Nelerle me\u015fgul oluyorlar? Bu insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n sonu nas\u0131l noktalanmaktad\u0131r? S\u00f6z bu ki\u015filerden baz\u0131lar\u0131 milyarlarca dolara sahiptirler, fakat bunlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu arad\u0131klar\u0131 saadeti, sahip olduklar\u0131 zenginliklerde bulamad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in strese ve bunal\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015fmektedirler. Hatta bu i\u015f adamlar\u0131ndan intihar edenlerin say\u0131s\u0131 az\u0131msanacak bir rakam de\u011fildir. \u0130nsanlar \u015firketlere, holdinglere saraylara, u\u00e7aklara, gemilere, b\u00fcy\u00fck ticaret merkezlerine sahip olabiliyorlar fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn bu zenginliklere sahip olabilmelerine ra\u011fmen, esasen mal-m\u00fclk kazanma h\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131n gayesi olan sa\u011fl\u0131k, huzur ve mutluluk gibi \u00f6nemli de\u011ferlere sahip olamayabilmektedirler. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile bu insanlar bir \u00e7ok maddi ve manevi nimet ve lezzetten mahrum kalabilmektedirler. \u00d6yleyse zenginlik demek kesinlikle mutluluk demek de\u011fildir.<\/h2>\n

Bu duruma \u015fu iki \u00f6rnek k\u0131ssa ile biraz daha a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k getirelim: Birinci k\u0131ssa: Bu k\u0131ssa, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin kad\u0131n\u0131 Kristina Unas\u00ees’in k\u0131ssas\u0131d\u0131r. Kristina, adalar, gemiler, u\u00e7aklar v.s.’den olu\u015fan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir servete sahip olan me\u015fhur yunanl\u0131 milyarder Unas\u00ees’in k\u0131z\u0131d\u0131r. Kristina, annesi ve erkek karde\u015fi \u00f6l\u00fcnce babas\u0131n\u0131n han\u0131m\u0131 ile beraber bu b\u00fcy\u00fck servetin varisi olmu\u015ftur. Babas\u0131 vefat edince kendisine babas\u0131ndan be\u015f milyar dolar kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015e\u00f6yle bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.. Bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z varis oldu\u011fu gemiler, u\u00e7aklar ve saraylardan ba\u015fka be\u015f milyar dolar paraya bir anda sahip oluyor! Bu gen\u00e7 k\u0131z bir \u00e7oklar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi ne g\u00f6re d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en mutlu k\u0131z\u0131 olmas\u0131 laz\u0131md\u0131r, \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi!? Bu gen\u00e7 k\u0131z daha babas\u0131 hayatta iken Amerikal\u0131 bir ki\u015fi ile evlenir. Fakat onunla mutlu olamay\u0131nca bir ka\u00e7 ay s\u00fcren bir evlilikten sonra ondan bo\u015fan\u0131r. Babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra yunanl\u0131 bir erkekle evlenir bununla da mutlu olamay\u0131nca onunla bir ka\u00e7 ay s\u00fcren evlili\u011fini sona erdirir. Bu evliliklerden sonra bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 ile evlenmeksizin belli bir zaman bekler. Gayretle mutlulu\u011fu yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Daha sonra Rusyal\u0131 bir kom\u00fcnistle evlenerek Rusya’ya gider. Hal bu ki o zamanlarda Rusya’da bir ki\u015finin iki odadan fazla eve sahip olmas\u0131 ve hizmet\u00e7i edinmesi yasakt\u0131r. Kristina b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ra\u011fmen oraya gitmi\u015f, iki odal\u0131 evinde oturarak kendinin ve kocas\u0131n\u0131n hizmetini yapmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Bu duruma \u015fa\u015fan gazeteciler bir g\u00fcn ona gelerek her t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2na sahip biri olarak neden bu fakir\u00e2ne ya\u015fam\u0131 tercih etti\u011fini sorarlar. Cevab\u0131 \u015fu olur: “Ben mutlulu\u011fu ar\u0131yorum.”<\/h2>\n

Kristina bu adamla yakla\u015f\u0131k bir sene ya\u015fad\u0131ktan sonra onunla da bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Daha sonra Fransa’da d\u00fczenlenen bir t\u00f6ren esnas\u0131nda gazeteciler kendisine;<\/h2>\n

-Ger\u00e7ekten sen d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin kad\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n!? Sorusunu sorduklar\u0131nda \u015fu cevab\u0131 al\u0131rlar:<\/h2>\n

-Evet! Ben d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin kad\u0131n\u0131y\u0131m, fakat ayn\u0131 zamanda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en mutsuz kad\u0131n\u0131y\u0131m!!<\/h2>\n

Kristina daha sonra Fransal\u0131 zengin bir ki\u015fi evlenir. Bir m\u00fcddet sonra ondan bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya getirir. Fakat bu ki\u015fi ile de mutlu olamay\u0131nca onu da bo\u015far. Kristina son kocas\u0131ndan da bo\u015fand\u0131ktan sonra belli bir zaman \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, keder ve bunal\u0131m i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. Daha sonra Arjantin’in \u015eilih kentinde \u00f6l\u00fc olarak bulunmu\u015ftur. Fakat bu \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn bir intihar m\u0131 yoksa bir cinayet mi oldu\u011fu anla\u015f\u0131lamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

\u00ad\u00ad<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi sadece varl\u0131kl\u0131 olmak mutluluk i\u00e7in yeterli de\u011fildir. Mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 sadece maddi olarak varl\u0131kl\u0131 olmakta g\u00f6renler hi\u00e7bir zaman mutlulu\u011fu yakalayamadan ya\u015fayacaklar ve k\u0131s\u0131r bir d\u00f6ng\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7inde bocalay\u0131p duracaklard\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

\u015eimdi huzur ve mutlulu\u011fun holdingler, \u015firketler sahibi olmakta de\u011fil, islam\u00ee bir inan\u00e7 ve ya\u015fant\u0131yla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilece\u011fini belgeleyen di\u011fer k\u0131ssay\u0131 dinleyelim:<\/h2>\n

Bu k\u0131ssa bir \u015firketler gurubuna sahip olan Amerikal\u0131, zengin bir i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu adam\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu \u015firketlerin birinde m\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir gen\u00e7 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Bu zengin i\u015f adam\u0131 ne zaman onun yan\u0131ndan ge\u00e7se, bu i\u015f\u00e7isinin y\u00fcz\u00fcnde daima mutlu oldu\u011funa i\u015faret eden tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn hi\u00e7 eksik olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmektedir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131n kendisinin mutsuz ve bunal\u0131ml\u0131 bir ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u015eirketin sahibi bir g\u00fcn bu m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r ve kendisine daima mutluluk ve huzur i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steren tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcnden hi\u00e7 eksik olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlatarak bunu nas\u0131l becerdi\u011fini sorar. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman gen\u00e7 \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verir:<\/h2>\n

-Bunun s\u0131rr\u0131 benim m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmamdad\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

\u015eirket sahibi \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/h2>\n

-\u015eayet ben de m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olursam ayn\u0131 saadeti duyar m\u0131y\u0131m?<\/h2>\n

M\u00fcsl\u00fcman gen\u00e7 \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/h2>\n

-Elbette ayn\u0131 saadeti duyars\u0131n!<\/h2>\n

Daha sonra bu gen\u00e7, bu i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131 \u0130slam Merkezi’ne g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u0130\u015f adam\u0131 burada kelime-i \u015fahadet getirerek m\u00fcsl\u00fcman oldu\u011funu ilan edince tamamen dolmu\u015f bir ki\u015fi gibi y\u00fcksek bir sesle a\u011flamaya ba\u015flar. Neden bu \u015fekilde a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 soruldu\u011funda \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Hayat\u0131mda ilk defa mutlulu\u011fu tad\u0131yorum!!” Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“Allah kimin g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc islama a\u00e7m\u0131\u015fsa o, Rabbinden bir nur \u00fczerinde de\u011fil midir? Allah’\u0131 anmak hususunda kalpleri kat\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015f olanlara yaz\u0131klar olsun! \u0130\u015fte bunlar apa\u00e7\u0131k bir sap\u0131kl\u0131k i\u00e7indedirler.” 3<\/a><\/h2>\n

De\u011ferli karde\u015fim Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’in \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fcne bir kulak verelim:<\/h2>\n

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“\u0130\u00e7inizden biriniz sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, emniyet ve g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde sabahlar da, o g\u00fcnk\u00fc yiyece\u011fine de sahip olursa sanki d\u00fcnya onun i\u00e7in geni\u015fletilip onun m\u00fclk\u00fc olmu\u015ftur.” 4<\/a><\/h2>\n

Evet karde\u015fim! Mutlu olmak sadece islama sar\u0131lmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. D\u00fcnyal\u0131k mallara gelince; onlardan seni doyuracak ve Allah’a kullukta sana yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak kadar\u0131n\u0131 edinsen sana yeter. Ahirette, Allah’a kullu\u011fa vakit ay\u0131rmada cimrilik etme pahas\u0131na da olsa ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in son gayret ve h\u0131rsla biriktirdi\u011fin mallar\u0131n sana hi\u00e7 bir faydas\u0131 yoktur.<\/h2>\n

\u015eimdide d\u0131\u015f mutlulu\u011fa giren \u015f\u00f6hret, makam ve diploma mutlulu\u011funa de\u011finelim:<\/h2>\n

\u015e\u00f6hret, Makam ve Diploma Mutlulu\u011fu<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, b\u00fcy\u00fck servet sahiplerinin hayat\u0131ndan \u00f6rnekler vererek onlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 hayat ve hayat\u0131n nas\u0131l sona erdi\u011fi ile ilgili \u00f6rnekler verdik. \u015eimdi ise saadetin \u015f\u00f6hrette olup olmayaca\u011f\u0131 konusunda bir \u015feyler s\u00f6yleyelim. \u015e\u00e2yet saadet zenginlikte de de\u011filse acaba \u015f\u00f6hrette olabilir mi!? Etraf\u0131m\u0131zda \u015f\u00f6hretin zirvesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir \u00e7ok \u015fark\u0131c\u0131, t\u00fcrk\u00fcc\u00fc ve tiyatrocu var. Acaba bu ki\u015filer istedikleri mutlu ya\u015fam\u0131 yakalayabilmi\u015fler midir!? \u00d6rne\u011fin me\u015fhur m\u00fczisyen Abdulhal\u00eem Haf\u0131z Hayat\u0131nda mutlu mu idi!? Sahip oldu\u011fu \u015f\u00f6hret onu mutlu, huzurlu ve rahat bir ya\u015fama kavu\u015fturabildi mi!? Maalesef, hay\u0131r! Hayat\u0131 boyunca hasta olarak ya\u015fad\u0131. Evlenip s\u0131cak bir aile bile olu\u015fturamad\u0131. Babal\u0131\u011f\u0131 tadamad\u0131. Bunal\u0131ml\u0131 bir ya\u015famla elli ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131 ve elem ve keder i\u00e7inde \u00f6ld\u00fc. Neden genelde bu t\u00fcr i\u015fleri meslek edinen bu insanlar\u0131n hi\u00e7 bir evlilikleri diki\u015f tutmaz! Onlardan bir \u00e7o\u011funun defalarca evlenip evlenip bo\u015fand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Bu insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fland\u0131klar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan ihmal edilip aceze yurtlar\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131klar\u0131na \u00e7ok\u00e7a \u015fahit oluruz. Zenginlikten, \u015f\u00f6hretten ve makam ve mevkiden beklenen saadet elbette bo\u015f bir umuttan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/h2>\n

Bak\u0131n \u00fcnl\u00fc tiyatrocu Hena Surut kendisine Allah tevbe nasip ettikten sonra k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l oldu\u011fu ile ilgili sorusuna nas\u0131l cevap veriyor: “Sevgili k\u0131z\u0131m! Ben tevbe etmeden \u00f6nce nas\u0131l bir ya\u015fam i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumu bir bilsen!? Bundan \u00f6nce mutsuzluk, elem ve keder yuma\u011f\u0131yd\u0131m sanki! B\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131, bunal\u0131m, stres \u00e7e\u015fitleri ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ve b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u00fckte yer alan b\u00fct\u00fcn manalar\u0131yla birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131m!!”<\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim, Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc ve r\u0131zk\u0131n\u0131 bereketlendirsin! Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00f6hret olmak insan\u0131 mutlu k\u0131lmaya yeter mi!? Elbette ki yetmez! \u015e\u00f6hrete kavu\u015fan insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 bunal\u0131ml\u0131 hayat\u0131 hep birlikte m\u00fc\u015fahede etmekteyiz.<\/h2>\n

\u00d6yleyse saadeti sultanl\u0131kta, makam ve mevkide bulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fcd\u00fcr!?<\/h2>\n

Bu soruya cevap verebilmek i\u00e7in \u00f6rnek olarak \u00fclkesinden kovulan ve ondan sonra da s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacak bir yer bulamayan \u0130ran \u015eah\u0131n\u0131 ele alal\u0131m. \u0130ran \u015eah\u0131 \u00fclkesinden kovulduktan sonra ac\u0131lar ve kederler i\u00e7inde s\u00fcrg\u00fcn hayat\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ve en sonunda A\u0130DS hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na yakalanarak M\u0131s\u0131r’da \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Onlarca sene devam eden debdebeli bir hayattan sonra kendisi ve ailesi ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 \u00fclkelere da\u011f\u0131larak peri\u015fan olmu\u015flard\u0131r<\/h2>\n

*Sizlere ba\u015fka bir k\u0131ssa daha aktaray\u0131m. Orta Afrika \u00fclkelerinden birinin devlet ba\u015fkan\u0131 olan Bukasa kendisini \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu \u00fclkesinin k\u0131ral\u0131 ve imparatoru tayin etmi\u015fti. Resmi bir ziyaret i\u00e7in yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda en g\u00fcvendi\u011fi ki\u015filer kendisini azlederek makam\u0131na oturdular. B\u00f6ylece ka\u015f ile g\u00f6z aras\u0131nda ba\u015f tac\u0131na el konmu\u015f, koltu\u011fu kendi alt\u0131ndan \u00e7ekilivermi\u015ftir. Bir anda imparator Bukasa art\u0131k sadece dillerde dola\u015fan bir hikaye oluvermi\u015ftir.5<\/a><\/h2>\n

Ne zenginlik, ne \u015f\u00f6hret, ne de makam iman olmad\u0131k\u00e7a insan\u0131 mutlu k\u0131lmayacakt\u0131r. Zira kalbin arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sadece bu ge\u00e7ici zevk ve zenginlikler de\u011fildir. Kalp yaratan\u0131n\u0131, Rabbini aramaktad\u0131r. Kalpte var olan bo\u015flu\u011fu sadece onun sevgisi ve r\u0131zas\u0131 doldurabilir. O bo\u015flu\u011fu ba\u015fka \u015feylerle doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak bo\u015funa bir gayret olup sahibine pi\u015fmanl\u0131k ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey kazand\u0131rmaz. Fakat bu s\u0131fatlara veya bunlardan birine sahip olan bir ki\u015fi Allah’a iman eder, O’nun emir buyurdu\u011fu \u015fekilde ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrse bu durumda sa\u00e2dete kavu\u015fmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/h2>\n

*Bir insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck diploma ve ilmi kariyerlere sahip olmas\u0131 mutlu olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yeterli olur mu?<\/h2>\n

Bu sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 vermeden \u00f6nce Dr. \u00d6mer El-A\u015fkar’\u0131n rivayet etti\u011fi \u0130ngiltere’de bir \u00fcniversitede g\u00f6rev yapan bir kad\u0131n profes\u00f6r\u00fcn El-Ehram gazetesinde yay\u0131nlanan \u015fu k\u0131ssas\u0131n\u0131 aktaray\u0131m:<\/h2>\n

Bir g\u00fcn bu Profes\u00f6r, k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frencilerine hitap ederek \u015f\u00f6yle der: “G\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz, ben altm\u0131\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na geldim. Bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde en b\u00fcy\u00fck ilm\u00ee kariyerlere ula\u015ft\u0131m. \u00c7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ve bir \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131ya imza att\u0131m. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m her dakika bana \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck kazan\u00e7lar getirdi. Fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn bu ilm\u00ee kariyerler ve maddi kazan\u00e7lardan sonra mutlulu\u011fu yakalayabildim mi!? B\u00fct\u00fcn bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m, \u015f\u00f6hretim seyahatlerim beni \u00f6yle \u00e7ok me\u015fgul etti ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan daha \u00f6nemli olan kad\u0131nl\u0131k g\u00f6revlerimi unuttum. \u00d6ncelikle evlenip \u00e7ocuk sahibi olamad\u0131m. Huzur dolu bir yuvaya sahip olamad\u0131m. Unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n esas g\u00f6revi evlenip bir aile olu\u015fturmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcstlenece\u011fi hi\u00e7 bir g\u00f6rev bu g\u00f6revinden \u00fcst\u00fcn olamaz. B\u00fct\u00fcn k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frencilerime evvela bu g\u00f6revlerini dikkate al\u0131p daha sonra \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ve \u015f\u00f6hret olma i\u015flerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmelerini tavsiye ederim! \u015eimdi ben anl\u0131yorum ki koca \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fc bo\u015funa ge\u00e7irmi\u015fim.” 6<\/a><\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim bu profes\u00f6r\u00fcn dediklerini okudunuz Profes\u00f6r\u00fcn s\u00f6zleri evlenip, \u00e7oluk-\u00e7ocuk sahibi olarak bir yuva kurmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in duydu\u011fu hasret ve pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015f hayat\u0131 i\u00e7in ne kadar hay\u0131fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Bu konuda ger\u00e7ek hayattan al\u0131nan bir \u00e7ok \u00f6rnek olay anlatmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr fakat takdir edersiniz ki, bu kitap\u00e7\u0131kta bunlar\u0131 zikretmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/h2>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n saadete kavu\u015fmas\u0131, kalbinin huzur bulmas\u0131 ancak ve ancak Allah’\u0131 anmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Allah’a samimi bir \u015fekilde iman edip ihlas ve ihsanla iyi amel i\u015fleyenlerin kavu\u015facaklar\u0131 bedensel ve ruhan\u00ee saadetin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fcnyal\u0131k hi\u00e7bir nimetle k\u0131yaslamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bu hali ancak cennet ehli ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r. Baz\u0131 \u00e2rif ki\u015filer bu lezzeti tatm\u0131\u015flar ve \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015flerdir: “\u015eayet cennet ehli bu huzuru duyuyorsa onlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok g\u00fczeldir.” 7<\/a><\/h2>\n

MUTLULU\u011eA ULA\u015eTIRAN VES\u0130LELER<\/h2>\n

Kitap\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda, de\u011fi\u015fik k\u0131ssalar ile belirtti\u011fimiz gibi, s\u0131hhat, zenginlik, makam ve \u015f\u00f6hret tek ba\u015flar\u0131na insana saadet vermeye yetmemektedir. \u00d6yleyse ger\u00e7ek saadet nerededir? Ona nas\u0131l ula\u015fabiliriz? Bu sorulara cevap verebilmek i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek saadete ula\u015ft\u0131ran sebeplerden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6ylece s\u0131ralayal\u0131m:<\/h2>\n

1-Allah’a iman ederek salih amel i\u015flemek: \u0130nsano\u011flunun d\u00fcnyada kazanaca\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck nimet elbette Allah’a ger\u00e7ek manada iman ederek kalbini bu imanla doldurmas\u0131d\u0131r. Mutlulu\u011fun, sevincin ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn yeri kalp oldu\u011funa g\u00f6re ki\u015fi kalbine koyaca\u011f\u0131 sevgi \u00e7e\u015fidini se\u00e7erken buna gerekli \u00f6zeni g\u00f6stermelidir. Ki\u015fi Allah’a iman etti\u011finde kalbi birden O’nun sevgisi ile dolup ta\u015far ve b\u00f6ylece ger\u00e7ek sevgi nimetini bulmu\u015f olur. Bu sevgi o ki\u015fiyi mala-m\u00fclke, makama ve di\u011fer d\u00fcnyal\u0131k nimetlere a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 de\u011fer vermekten koruyacak ve bunlar\u0131n de\u011ferini onun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltecektir. Bunun en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerini Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’in ashab\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131nda g\u00f6rmekteyiz: Onlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onlar\u0131n, samimi olarak sevdikleri Rableri yolunda, sahip olduklar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn her \u015feyi feda etmekten kesinlikle \u00e7ekinmediklerini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz;<\/h2>\n

Onlardan birinin islam i\u00e7in cihat ederken g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcne bir ok saplan\u0131yor da bunun \u00fczerine o ki\u015fi: “K\u00e2benin Rabbine yemin olsun! Kazand\u0131m”, “K\u00e2benin Rabbine yemin olsun! Kazand\u0131m” diye hayk\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/h2>\n

Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 sava\u015f meydan\u0131nda cebinden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ka\u00e7 hurmay\u0131 yemeye bile vakit ay\u0131rmadan k\u00e2firlerle sava\u015fmak i\u00e7in sava\u015f meydan\u0131na dalarak “\u015eayet ya\u015farsam geri kalan\u0131 da yerim, bu hayat \u00e7ok uzundur” diye hayk\u0131r\u0131yor. Onlar\u0131 bu hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015flara sevk eden \u015fey acaba neydi!? Onlardaki sevin\u00e7, mutluluk ve ferah\u0131n hangi seviyelerde oldu\u011funu tahmin edebiliyor muyuz!?<\/h2>\n

\u0130sterseniz \u015fimdi Ebu Nuaym’in “Hilyet\u00fc’l-Evliya” eserinde zikretmi\u015f oldu\u011fu \u015fu k\u0131ssaya bir kulak verelim. Kitapta Ebu Nuaym \u0130brahim Bin Be\u015f\u015far’\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini zikreder: “Bir g\u00fcn \u0130brahim Bin Ethem, Ebu Yusuf Ebu Abdullah ve ben, \u0130skenderiyye’ye gitmek \u00fczere yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k. \u00dcrd\u00fcn nehrini ge\u00e7tikten sonra oturup dinlenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k. Kuru ekmek k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131ndan yiyerek Allah’a hamd ettik. Daha sonra \u0130brahim nehre girerek onun suyundan i\u00e7ti ve Allah’a hamd etti. Sonra nehirden \u00e7\u0131karak \u015f\u00f6yle dedi: Ey Ebu \u0130shak, \u015fayet krallar ve krallar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bizim i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuz nimetleri, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sevin\u00e7 ve mutlulu\u011fu bilmi\u015f olsalard\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fanarak bu huzurlu ve rahat ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 elimizden alabilmek i\u00e7in bizimle sava\u015f\u0131rlard\u0131.”<\/h2>\n

Bu salih insanlar, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 hayat\u0131n ne kadar g\u00fczel oldu\u011funu kalplerinin huzur ve sevin\u00e7le dolu oldu\u011funu bu \u015fekilde dile getiriyorlar. Buna ra\u011fmen bu hayat baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n nezdinde s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendiriliyor. Bu insanlar\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ad\u0131na ahkam kesmeleri, ac\u0131nacak hallerini g\u00f6rmeyip ba\u015fkalar\u0131na \u00fcz\u00fclmeleri biraz abesle i\u015ftigal etmekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir!?<\/h2>\n

\u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yle sevgili karde\u015fim, Allah’a sad\u0131k bir iman etmek ve daima salih amel i\u015flemek insan\u0131 huzura, sevince, refaha ve raz\u0131 eden bir hayata kavu\u015fturacakt\u0131r. Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 Nahl s\u00fbresi 97. \u00e2yetinde \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

\uf05d\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0644\u064e \u0635\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064b\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0651\u0646\u0652 \u0630\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0631\u064d \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0623\u064f\u0646\u0652\u062b\u064e\u0649 \u0641\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u0645\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064c \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0646\u064f\u062d\u0652\u064a\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u062d\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0629\u064b \u0637\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0628\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0646\u064e\u062c\u0652\u0632\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u062c\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u0623\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e\uf05b<\/span><\/h2>\n

“Erkek veya kad\u0131n, m\u00fcmin olarak kim iyi amel i\u015flerse, onu mutlaka g\u00fczel bir hayat ile ya\u015fat\u0131r\u0131z. Ve m\u00fck\u00e2fatlar\u0131n\u0131, elbette yapmakta olduklar\u0131n\u0131n en g\u00fczeli ile veririz.”<\/h2>\n

Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) ise \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650<\/span>.\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“\u00dc\u00e7 \u015fey vard\u0131r ki, bunlar kimde bulunursa o ki\u015fi iman\u0131n lezzetini tatm\u0131\u015f olur: Ki\u015fiye Allah ve Res\u00fbl\u00fcn\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn her \u015feyden daha sevgili gelmesi, ki\u015finin birini sevdi\u011finde onu sadece Allah i\u00e7in sevmesi, ki\u015finin k\u00fcfre d\u00f6nmekten ate\u015fe at\u0131lmaktan korkar gibi korkmas\u0131.” 8<\/a><\/h2>\n

2-Kaza ve kadere iman etmek: Mutlulu\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcren sebeplerden ikincisi de ki\u015finin kaza ve kadere iman etmesidir. Sevgili karde\u015fim, insano\u011flu bu d\u00fcnyada bir \u00e7ok bela, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc olaylara maruz kalmaktad\u0131r. Bu bela ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden ancak sa\u011flam bir kader inanc\u0131 ile gelebilir. Zira m\u00fcmin Allah’\u0131n kendisi i\u00e7in tayin etti\u011fi kadere raz\u0131 olup kendisine isabet eden zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sab\u0131rl\u0131 olur. Yine m\u00fcsl\u00fcman kendisine bir nimet verildi\u011finde rabbine \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr eder. M\u00fcminin bu inanc\u0131 ona kalp huzuru ve mutluluk verir. Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’in \u015fu hadisine kulak verelim:<\/h2>\n

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“M\u00fc\u2019minin i\u015fi ne acayiptir. Zira ba\u015f\u0131na gelen b\u00fct\u00fcn i\u015fler onun hayr\u0131nad\u0131r. Bu \u00f6zellik sadece m\u00fc’minler i\u00e7indir. \u015e\u00e2yet kendisine bir iyilik is\u00e2bet etse \u015f\u00fckreder ve bu \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ise onun hayr\u0131na olur. Kendisine bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck isabet etse sabreder bu sab\u0131r da onun hayr\u0131na olur.”9<\/a><\/h2>\n

\u0130man\u0131nda sad\u0131k olan bir m\u00fc’min bilir ki kendisine isabet eden bir musibet onu hataya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in de\u011fildir ve yine kendisini hataya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren \u015fey onun ba\u015f\u0131na bela olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fildir. Bu \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcy\u00fc bilen bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bunal\u0131ma girmez, rahatlar ve asla g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fc daralmaz. B\u00f6yle olunca da o m\u00fc’min hem d\u00fcnyada, hem \u00e2hirette ger\u00e7ek mutlulu\u011fu ve g\u00fczel hayat\u0131 yakalam\u0131\u015f olur.<\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim, konumuza \u00f6rnek olarak kanser sebebi ile ayaklar\u0131ndan birisinin kesilmesine karar verilen ve ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn o\u011flu vefat eden, ger\u00e7ek bir imana sahip Urveh Bin Ez-Z\u00fcbeyr’in \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rnek verelim. O \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Ben namaza durdu\u011fumda istedi\u011finizi yapabilirsiniz.” Ve ger\u00e7ekten namaza durur ve baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dizinin \u00fcst\u00fcnden keserler fakat kendisinde en ufak bir hareketlenme dahi olmaz!! Kanaman\u0131n durmas\u0131 i\u00e7in baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131zg\u0131n ya\u011fa soktuklar\u0131nda ise bay\u0131larak d\u00fc\u015fer. Gece kendisine gelince, insanlar kendisine hem ziyaret hem de taziyeye gelerek: “Baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in ge\u00e7mi\u015f olsun!” , “O\u011flunuz i\u00e7in, sizi t\u00e2ziye ederiz” derler. Urveh Bin Ez-Z\u00fcbeyr ise huzur ve vakar i\u00e7inde \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verir:<\/h2>\n

“Allah’a hamd olsun! Ey Rabbim! Beni bu hastal\u0131kla imtihan ettin ama \u00e2fiyetimi de verdin ve (\u00e7ocuklar\u0131mdan) birini ald\u0131n ama onlardan \u00e7o\u011funu bana b\u0131rakt\u0131n.!”<\/h2>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu anlay\u0131\u015f ve sab\u0131r kaza ve kadere iman etmenin semeresidir. Kaza ve kadere iman etmek m\u00fc’minin huzurunu art\u0131r\u0131r, kalbine r\u0131zal\u0131k kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Elbette ki kadere iman Allah’\u0131n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131na teslim olmay\u0131 gerektirir.<\/h2>\n

3-Allah (Azze ve Celle)’yi bol bol anmak:<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, insan\u0131 saadete g\u00f6t\u00fcren vesilelerden biri de Allah’\u0131 anmak, O’nu zikretmektir. Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r:<\/h2>\n

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“(Dikkat edin!) Kalpler ancak Allah’\u0131 anmakla huzur bulur.” 10<\/a><\/h2>\n

Allah’\u0131 zikretmeyen insan kendisini bo\u015flukta hisseder. O ki\u015fi ne yaparsa yaps\u0131n bunal\u0131m ve terslikten bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc kurtulamaz. Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

\uf05d\u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0636\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0630\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0634\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0636\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u0651\u064e\u0646\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0634\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0647\u064f \u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0642\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0649\uf05b<\/span><\/h2>\n

“Kim ki Allah’\u0131n zikrinden y\u00fcz \u00e7evirirse onun i\u00e7in can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir hayat vard\u0131r. K\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc de onu k\u00f6r olarak ha\u015frederiz.” 11<\/a><\/h2>\n

Malik Bin Diy\u00e2r \u015f\u00f6yle der: “\u0130nsano\u011flu Allah’\u0131 zikretmekten alaca\u011f\u0131 lezzeti hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden alamaz.”<\/h2>\n

Hasan Basr\u00ee \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Lezzeti \u015fu \u015feylerde aray\u0131n\u0131z: namaz, Allah’\u0131 zikir ve Kur’an okumak. Bunlar\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda lezzet bulduysan\u0131z buldunuz, \u015fayet bulamad\u0131ysan\u0131z biliniz ki kap\u0131 kapal\u0131d\u0131r.”<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, zikrin faydas\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc!? Zikrin \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck faydalar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Zikir kalbe y\u00fcksek derecede rahatl\u0131k, huzur, mutluluk ve esenlik verir. B\u00fct\u00fcn kalbinle Allah’a y\u00f6nelip dilini Allah’\u0131n zikriyle me\u015fgul etmeyi ve b\u00f6ylece daha d\u00fcnyada iken Allah’\u0131n cennetine girmeyi hi\u00e7 denediniz mi!?<\/h2>\n

4-Allah\u2019a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmak: Saadete kavu\u015fturan sebeplerden d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc de ki\u015finin b\u00fct\u00fcn sebepleri yerine getirmek ko\u015fulu ile her i\u015finde Allah’a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmas\u0131d\u0131r: \u015eayet bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman her i\u015fte, sebepleri yerine getirdikten sonra Allah’a g\u00fcvenip O’na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nsa Allah o ki\u015finin s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 giderecek ve O’nun kalbine ferahl\u0131k verecektir. De\u011ferli karde\u015fim bir \u015fey diledi\u011fin zaman sadece Allah’tan dile! Yard\u0131ma \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise sadece Allah’tan yard\u0131m iste! Sadece ondan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinde isabetli ve i\u015flerinde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmay\u0131 dile! Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0635\u0652\u0644\u0650\u062d \u0644\u0650\u064a \u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a \u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u0639\u0650\u0635\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0635\u0652\u0644\u0650\u062d\u0652 \u0644\u0650\u064a \u062f\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u062a\u0650\u064a \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0634\u0650\u064a\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0635\u0652\u0644\u0650\u062d\u0652 \u0644\u0650\u064a \u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u064e\u062a\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u062a\u0650\u064a \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u064a\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0629\u064e \u0632\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u062f\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0644\u0650\u064a \u0641\u064a \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u0650 \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064d\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0652 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0627\u062d\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0644\u0650\u064a \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u0650 \u0634\u064e\u0631\u0651\u064d<\/span>.\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“Allah\u0131m! Bana, beni her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hataya kar\u015f\u0131 koruyan dinimi kolay ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r k\u0131l! Ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00fcnyam\u0131 kolay ve hakk\u0131mda hay\u0131rl\u0131 k\u0131l! D\u00f6necek oldu\u011fum yer olan \u00e2hiretimi hakk\u0131mda hay\u0131rl\u0131 k\u0131l! Hayat\u0131m\u0131 her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015fi art\u0131rmama vesile k\u0131l! \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc benim i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015ferden kurtulup rahat bir ya\u015fama kavu\u015fmaya bir vesile k\u0131l!” 12<\/a><\/h2>\n

5-Saliha e\u015f: Mutlu bir ya\u015fama kavu\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in gerekli vesilelerden biri de saliha bir e\u015fle yuva kurmakt\u0131r. Zira saliha bir e\u015f saadeti yakalayabilmek i\u00e7in gerekli olan en \u00f6nemli unsurlardan biridir. Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064c \u0648\u064e\u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064f \u0645\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064e\u0629<\/span>\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“D\u00fcnya bir met\u00e2d\u0131r ve d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en hay\u0131rl\u0131 met\u00e2s\u0131 saliha bir kad\u0131nd\u0131r.” 13<\/a><\/h2>\n

Allah’\u0131n kendisine saliha bir kad\u0131n nasip etmi\u015f oldu\u011fu ki\u015filer saadet i\u00e7inde ya\u015farlar. Zira saliha kad\u0131n beyine itaatk\u00e2r olur. Saliha bir kad\u0131n beyinin g\u0131yab\u0131nda kocas\u0131n\u0131n iffetini ve mal\u0131n\u0131 korur. Beyi kendisine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kalbi sevin\u00e7le dolar. Beyi evde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ve mallar\u0131 konusunda hi\u00e7 endi\u015fe ta\u015f\u0131maz.<\/h2>\n

Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’den \u015f\u00f6yle rivayet edilir:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0639\u064c \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u062f\u064e\u0629\u0650<\/span>: \u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064e\u0629\u064f\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0646\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0633\u0650\u0639\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0628\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0647\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0621\u064f\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0639\u064c \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0648\u064e\u0629\u0650<\/span>: \u0627\u0644\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064f\u0648\u0621\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064f\u0648\u0621\u064f\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0646\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0636\u0651\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0642\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0643\u064e\u0628\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064f\u0648\u0621\u064f<\/span>\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“D\u00f6rt \u015fey mutluluktand\u0131r: Saliha kad\u0131n, geni\u015f ev, iyi kom\u015fu, huyu g\u00fczel binek. Ve yine d\u00f6rt \u015fey de ki\u015finin mutsuzlu\u011fundand\u0131r: K\u00f6t\u00fc kom\u015fu, k\u00f6t\u00fc huylu kad\u0131n, dar ev, k\u00f6t\u00fc binek.” 14<\/a><\/h2>\n

Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“\u00dc\u00e7 \u015fey vard\u0131r ki, bunlar insana mutluluk verir ve \u00fc\u00e7 \u015fey de vard\u0131r ki insana mutsuzluk verir. Mutluluk veren \u00fc\u00e7 \u015feyden biri \u015fudur: Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ho\u015funa giden, kendisini yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendisi ve mal\u0131n konusunda g\u00fcven duydu\u011fun kad\u0131n (e\u015f).”15<\/a><\/h2>\n

Hakim’in rivayet etti\u011fi bir hadiste Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u0130bn-i Abbas’a \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/h2>\n

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“Sana ki\u015finin saklayacabilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck hazineden haber vereyim mi? Ki\u015fi kendisine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendisini mutlu eden, kendisine bir i\u015f buyurdu\u011funda onu yerine getiren ve kendisinin yan\u0131nda bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanda namusunu koruyan saliha kad\u0131nd\u0131r.”16<\/a><\/h2>\n

6- Namaz: Saadete ula\u015ft\u0131ran sebeplerden alt\u0131nc\u0131s\u0131 namazd\u0131r. Muhterem karde\u015fim, (Allah sana ve bana merhamet eylesin!) \u015funu bil ki; namaz ki\u015finin k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc ilk defa hesaba \u00e7ekilece\u011fi bir ibadettir. Namaz, kul ile onu yaratan aras\u0131nda kurulan manevi bir ba\u011fd\u0131r. Ki\u015finin geni\u015f y\u00fcrekli, huzurlu ve mutlu olmas\u0131nda namaz\u0131n \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck etkisi vard\u0131r. Zira kul namaz vesilesi ile Rabbine yalvar\u0131r, O’nun \u00f6n\u00fcnde boyun b\u00fcker ve kulun kalbi d\u00fcnyal\u0131k her t\u00fcrl\u00fc me\u015fguliyet ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan kurtularak yaratan\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r ve kalbi huzurla dolar. Unutmayal\u0131m ki namaz d\u00fcnyada ve hem de ahirette ki\u015fiye faydal\u0131 olacak amelleri ba\u015farma da en b\u00fcy\u00fck vesiledir. Namaz kalbi ve y\u00fcz\u00fc nurland\u0131r\u0131r, insan\u0131 huzura kavu\u015fturur. Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0628\u0650\u0644\u0627\u064e\u0644 \u0623\u064e\u0642\u0650\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0631\u0650\u062d\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0628\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627<\/span>\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“Ya Bilal, namaza kald\u0131rarak (kamet getirerek) bizi namazla huzur ve rahata kavu\u015ftur.” 17<\/a><\/h2>\n

Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) ba\u015fka bir hadisinde \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“Bana d\u00fcnyada kad\u0131nlar ve g\u00fczel koku sevdirildi ve namaz g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn nuru k\u0131l\u0131nd\u0131.” 18<\/a><\/h2>\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim, kalp huzurun, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcn ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn nuru senin namaz\u0131ndad\u0131r. Ki\u015fi namazda Rabbine y\u00f6neldi\u011finde d\u00fcnyal\u0131k b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve me\u015fgalelerinden kurtulur.<\/h2>\n

7-Saadete kavu\u015fturan vesilelerden yedincisi de \u015fer’\u00ee<\/span> ilim talebinde bulunmakt\u0131r. \u0130lim talep eden insan s\u00fcrekli bir sevin\u00e7 ya\u015far ve rahatl\u0131k ve huzur hisseder. Zira o ki\u015fi, s\u00fcrekli bir bah\u00e7eden di\u011ferine ge\u00e7en, bir meyveyi tatt\u0131ktan sonra di\u011ferini tadan ve kendisine sadece ilim ile ula\u015f\u0131labilecek bir faziletten ba\u015fkas\u0131na ge\u00e7en bir ki\u015fidir. Elbette ilim talebi baya\u011f\u0131 zor, me\u015fakkatli ve sab\u0131r isteyen bir i\u015ftir. Fakat ayn\u0131 zamanda insana huzur ve saadet veren bir i\u015ftir.<\/h2>\n

De\u011ferli karde\u015fim, ilim talebi sahibine hem d\u00fcnyada hem de ahirette fazilet, izzet ve \u015feref kazand\u0131rarak onu y\u00fcksek makamlara ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

Muhterem karde\u015fim, (Allah seni her t\u00fcrl\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten korusun!) \u015eeyh\u00fc’l islam \u0130bn-i Hacer ile bir yahudi aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en \u015fu k\u0131ssaya bir kulak ver: \u0130bn-i Hacer o zamanlar mahkeme ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapmaktad\u0131r. Bir g\u00fcn i\u015fine gitmek \u00fczere yola koyulur. Yolda bir yahudiyi \u00e7ok zelil bir durumda g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Yahudi ona \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Peygamberinizin s\u00f6z\u00fc olan \u00abD\u00fcnya m\u00fc’minin hapishanesi, kafirin cennetidir\u00bb19<\/a> s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l tefsir edersin?” Sen g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun ki ben kafirim ve \u00e7ok zelil ve ac\u0131nacak bir durumday\u0131m, oysa ki sen m\u00fc’minsin ve nimetler i\u00e7inde ya\u015f\u0131yorsun.!? \u0130bn Hacer (Rahimehullah) ona \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verir: “Sen, d\u00fcnyada \u00e7ekmi\u015f oldu\u011fun b\u00fct\u00fcn bu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ve tersliklere ra\u011fmen -\u015fayet kafir olarak \u00f6l\u00fcrsen- ahirette seni bekleyen ac\u0131 azab\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn yan\u0131nda cennette say\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n. Ben ise i\u00e7inde bulunmu\u015f oldu\u011fum bu g\u00fczel nimetlere ra\u011fmen -\u015fayet Allah beni cennetine sokarsa- cennette beni bekleyen nimetlere k\u0131yasla ben bu halimle hapishanede say\u0131l\u0131r\u0131m. Yahudi: Ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6yle mi?! der. \u0130bn Hacer: Evet \u00f6yle!. diye cevap verir. Bunun \u00fczerine yahudi “E\u015fhed\u00fc en la ilahe illallah ve enne Muhammeden res\u00fbl\u00fcllah” diyerek m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olur.<\/h2>\n

8-Saadete kavu\u015fturan sebeplerden sekizincisi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veren sebepleri ortadan kald\u0131rmakt\u0131r: \u015eeyh Abdurrahman Es-S\u00e2d\u00ee (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: “\u0130nsan\u0131 mutlu ve huzurlu k\u0131l\u0131p onun s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, h\u00fczn\u00fcn\u00fc gideren sebeplerden biri de ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanan telafisi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc olaylar\u0131 unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. \u0130nsan gelecekte kendisini korku, a\u00e7l\u0131k ve h\u00fcz\u00fcn dolu g\u00fcnlerin bekledi\u011fini, i\u015flerinin bundan sonra tersine giderek hi\u00e7 d\u00fczelmeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek kendine haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Zira gelecek Allah’\u0131n elindedir. Kulun gelecek konusunda elinde hi\u00e7 \u015fey yoktur. \u0130nsan bunu yaparsa kalbi mutmain olur, hali iyile\u015fir, kalbinde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 her t\u00fcrl\u00fc dert ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan kurtulur.”20<\/a><\/h2>\n

9-\u0130nsanlara \u0130yilikte Bulunmak: K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim, (Allah seni korusun!) insan\u0131 mutlulu\u011fa kavu\u015fturan vesilelerden biri de; insanlara s\u00f6zl\u00fc ve fiili olarak iyilikte bulunmakt\u0131r. Facir olsun takval\u0131 olsun insanlar\u0131n dertlerine \u00e7are bulmak, onlar\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermek gibi hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flerinde onlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak ger\u00e7ekten insana mutluluk verecektir. Bu i\u015fleri Allah r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7in yapanlara Allah \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck ecir verecek ve insanlar\u0131n h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve kederlerini giderecektir.<\/h2>\n

10-Kederlenmeyi s\u00fcrekli hale getirmemek: \u015eeyh Abdurrahman Es S\u00e2d\u00ee (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Ak\u0131ll\u0131 olan bir insan do\u011fru bir ya\u015fam\u0131n mutlu ve huzurlu olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilir. Yine ak\u0131ll\u0131 ki\u015fi bu hayat\u0131n ne kadar k\u0131sa oldu\u011funun bilincine vararak bu k\u0131sa hayatta can s\u0131kmaya ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kederlenmeye gerek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir. Zira kederlenmeyi devam ettiren bir ki\u015fi hayat\u0131n\u0131 kendisine karartm\u0131\u015f ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7o\u011funu elem ve kederle ge\u00e7irmi\u015f olur.”<\/h2>\n

11-D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flere kanalize etmek: Sevgili karde\u015fim \u015funu bil ki hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu, gaye ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizin do\u011frulu\u011fu ile do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eayet d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriniz hem d\u00fcnya ve hem de dininiz i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olacak \u015feylerde yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131yorsa hayat\u0131n\u0131zda mutlusunuz demektir. Ayn\u0131 zamanda etraf\u0131ndaki insanlardan kendine y\u00f6nelik olarak duydu\u011fun k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6zlerin sana zarar vermekten uzak oldu\u011funu, bilakis bu k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6zlerin ancak ve ancak sahibine zarar verece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsen bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce de bir \u00e7ok bela, keder ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan kurtulmana sebep olacakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

12-Sana isabet eden k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerle sahip oldu\u011fun nimetler aras\u0131nda bir k\u0131yaslama yaparak sahip oldu\u011fun nimetlerin \u00e7oklu\u011funun fark\u0131na varman: De\u011ferli karde\u015fim, (Allah seni ve b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fc’minleri hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flerde muvaffak k\u0131ls\u0131n!) \u015fayet sana isabet eden k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerin oran\u0131 ile, Y\u00fcce Allah’\u0131n sana vermi\u015f oldu\u011fu say\u0131l\u0131p hesaplanamayacak kadar \u00e7ok olan, g\u00fczel nimetleri k\u0131yaslayacak olursan, arada ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark oldu\u011funu g\u00f6receksin. Bu da \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerinin ve kederlerinin gitmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla mutlulu\u011funun tekrar geri gelmesine sebep olacakt\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 zamanda ki\u015fi kendisine muhtemel bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck isabet etmesinin oran\u0131 ile bu muhtemel k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten kurtulma yollar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7oklu\u011funu bir mukayese etti\u011finde bu korku ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcden kurtulacakt\u0131r. \u0130nsano\u011flu, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ihtimallerin b\u00fcy\u00fck ihtimalleri yenmesine m\u00fcsaade etmemelidir.<\/h2>\n

13-H\u00fcz\u00fcn ve kederin giderilmesinde Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) den gelen zikir ve dualar\u0131 kullanmak: Abdullah bin Mesut’tan rivayet edilen bir hadisi \u015ferifte Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana bir \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc veya s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 isabet ederde; Allah\u0131m ben senin kulunum, kulunun o\u011fluyum (ondan do\u011fmay\u0131m), aln\u0131m (per\u00e7emim) senin elindedir, hakk\u0131mda dedi\u011fin olur, hakk\u0131mda verdi\u011fin h\u00fck\u00fcm adaletin ta kendisidir. Kitab\u0131nda indirdi\u011fin veya kullar\u0131ndan birine beyan etti\u011fin veya bilinmeyen ilimlerden k\u0131l\u0131p yan\u0131nda saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve senin olan b\u00fct\u00fcn isimlerle sana yalvar\u0131yorum; Kur’an\u0131 kalbimin bahar\u0131, g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcm\u00fcn nuru, h\u00fczn\u00fcm\u00fcn, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131m\u0131n gidericisi k\u0131l! \u015eeklinde dua ederse Allah onun s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giderir, h\u00fczn\u00fcn\u00fc sevin\u00e7le de\u011fi\u015ftirir.” 21<\/a><\/h2>\n

14-\u0130yi bir kom\u015fu ve sakin bir ev: Muhterem karde\u015fim saadete ula\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in gerekli olan ihtiya\u00e7lardan biri de iyi bir kom\u015fu ve sakin bir eve sahip olabilmektir. \u0130yi kom\u015fu insana rahatl\u0131k ve g\u00fcven verir. Zira o sana yak\u0131n bir ki\u015fi olarak senin i\u00e7in daima do\u011fruyu hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan\u0131 tavsiye edecek, seni her k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak ve evde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda evini koruyacakt\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0632\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u062c\u0650\u0628\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064f \u064a\u064f\u0648\u0635\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650 \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0638\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0633\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0648\u064e\u0631\u0651\u0650\u062b\u064e\u0647\u064f<\/span>\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“Cibril s\u00fcrekli olarak, kom\u015fu haklar\u0131 konusunda o kadar nasihat etti ki; sonunda kom\u015fuyu kom\u015fusuna varis k\u0131lacak sand\u0131m” 22<\/a><\/h2>\n

Yine Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc \u015fu \u015fekilde buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/h2>\n

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“\u0130\u00e7inizden kom\u015fusu, kendisinin \u015ferrinden emin olmayan bir ki\u015fi cennete giremez.” 23<\/a><\/h2>\n

Bir g\u00fcn Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’e \u015f\u00f6yle denildi:<\/h2>\n

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“Falanca kad\u0131n g\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc oru\u00e7 tutmakla, gecesini namaz k\u0131lmakla ge\u00e7irir, fakat dili ile kom\u015fular\u0131na eziyet eder (onun i\u00e7in ne dersiniz?) Dedi ki: Onda hay\u0131r yoktur, o ate\u015ftedir. Denildi ki; falanca ise, be\u015f vakit namaz\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131lar, ramazan orucunu tutar ve de bir par\u00e7a kurutulmu\u015f yo\u011furttan da olsa sadaka verir, fakat dili ile kom\u015fular\u0131na eziyet etmez (buna ne dersiniz?). Dedi ki; o ,cennettedir.” 24<\/a><\/h2>\n

De\u011ferli karde\u015fim, islam\u0131n kom\u015fuluk haklar\u0131na nas\u0131l \u00f6nem verdi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz! Her kom\u015fu kom\u015funun hak ve hukukuna riayet etmi\u015f olsa ferd\u00ee ve i\u00e7tima\u00ee planda huzur sa\u011flanm\u0131\u015f olup toplumsal ba\u011flar g\u00fc\u00e7lenir ve \u00f6zlenen \u00f6rnek toplumlar ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00f6rnek medeniyetler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Ahlakl\u0131, kom\u015fuluk hukukuna ri\u00e2yet eden ve daima Allah kat\u0131nda do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapma gayretinde olan bir kom\u015fuya, geni\u015f ve sakin bir eve sahip olmak \u015f\u00fcphesiz insana b\u00fcy\u00fck bir saadet verecektir. Fakat kom\u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen bu s\u0131fatlar\u0131 kendisinde ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131yorsa elbette bu durum onun kom\u015fusu i\u00e7in bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve korku sebebi olacakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

15-Salih (iyi) insanlarla oturup-kalkmak: K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim, muhakkak ki insan\u0131n salih arkada\u015fla oturup -kalkmas\u0131 onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir nimettir. Zira o salih ki\u015fi arkada\u015f\u0131 do\u011fruyu unuttu\u011funda ona do\u011fruyu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r, do\u011fruyu yapmaktan aciz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ona yapmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur, hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan yolu g\u00f6sterir, hakk\u0131, sabr\u0131 ve daima iyili\u011fi yapmay\u0131 emredip k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapmaktan onu al\u0131koyar. Bu nedenle Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) M\u00fcslim’de yer alan 2628 numaral\u0131 hadiste belirtildi\u011fi gibi, iyi arkada\u015f\u0131 misk ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na benzetmi\u015ftir. B\u00f6yle bir arkada\u015f ya sana kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z olarak miskten biraz verecektir, ya ondan misk sat\u0131n alacaks\u0131n ya da onun g\u00fczel kokusu sana ge\u00e7ecektir. Hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir arkada\u015fla oturup kalkan daima ondan hay\u0131r bulacak ve vaktini faydal\u0131 ve ho\u015f \u015feylerle ge\u00e7irmi\u015f olacakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

16-Yap\u0131lan hay\u0131rl\u0131 amelin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah’tan beklemek: \u015eeyh Abdurrahman Es-S\u00e2di (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: \u0130nsan\u0131n muhtemel s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lardan kurtulabilmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 etmenlerden biri de ki\u015finin yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu iyiliklerin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 insanlardan de\u011fil de bunu sadece Allah’tan beklemesidir. \u015eayet, sizde hakk\u0131 bulunan veya kendisinde hakk\u0131n bulunan bir ki\u015fiye iyilik yaparsan bunu Allah ile kendi aranda cereyan eden bir olay olarak g\u00f6rmelisin. \u0130yilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ki\u015fiden kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklememelisin. Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/h2>\n

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“Sizi ba\u015fka bir sebep i\u00e7in de\u011fil sadece Allah r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7in doyuruyoruz; sizden ne bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ne de bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr bekliyoruz (derler).” 25<\/a><\/h2>\n

\u00d6zellikle iyilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlar \u00e7oluk-\u00e7ocu\u011fun ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n iseler kesinlikle onlardan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklememelisiniz. Biliniz ki ne zaman ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giderirseniz mutlaka kalbinizde tarifi zor bir sevin\u00e7 ve huzur bulacak Allah’\u0131n izniyle keder ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan kurtulacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/h2>\n

17-De\u011ferli karde\u015fim, saadete kavu\u015fma vesilelerinden biri de “\u0130\u015fleri zaman\u0131nda yap\u0131p gelecek vakitlerde bunlar\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131ndan kurtulmakt\u0131r”: \u0130nsano\u011flu b\u00fct\u00fcn i\u015flerini zaman\u0131n da yapacak olursa i\u015flerinin birikip alt\u0131nda ezilmesini \u00f6nlemi\u015f olur. Bu durum insan\u0131n daral\u0131p s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya d\u00fc\u015fmesini \u00f6nler.<\/h2>\n

18-Faydal\u0131 i\u015fleri yapmada gayretli olmak: Saadete kavu\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in bir insan\u0131n daima faydal\u0131 i\u015flerin pe\u015finde olmas\u0131, zararl\u0131 i\u015fleri yapmaktan sak\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekir. Daima do\u011fruyu ve faydal\u0131y\u0131 yapmak ve yanl\u0131\u015f ve zararl\u0131 fiillerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmak insan\u0131 muhtemel s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lardan kurtaracakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

19-Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’in tavsiyelerine uymak: Saadete kavu\u015fman\u0131n yollar\u0131ndan biri de Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)’in tavsiyelerine uymak ve onun g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi yoldan y\u00fcr\u00fcmektir. \u015eu hadis-i \u015ferifte onun bu g\u00fczel tavsiye ve ir\u015fatlar\u0131ndan sadece biri dile getirilmektedir:<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u0627\u064f\u0646\u0652\u0638\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u062a\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0638\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0642\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u0623\u064e\u062c\u0652\u062f\u064e\u0631\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0644\u0627\u064e \u062a\u064e\u0632\u0652\u062f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0646\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650<\/span>.\u00bb<\/h2>\n

“(Varl\u0131k olarak) sizden \u00fcst\u00fcn olanlara de\u011fil, sizden altta olanlara bak\u0131n\u0131z. Bu Allah’\u0131n nimetlerinin kadrini bilmeniz i\u00e7in daha iyidir.” 26<\/a><\/h2>\n

Etraf\u0131na \u015f\u00f6yle bir g\u00f6z atan ki\u015fi bir \u00e7ok insan\u0131n kendisinden varl\u0131k olarak daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck oldu\u011funu g\u00f6recek ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu duruma \u015f\u00fckrederek herhangi bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veya moral bozuklu\u011funa d\u00fc\u015fmeyecektir. M\u00fc’min bir ki\u015fi -i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu \u015fartlar ne olursa olsun- \u015f\u00f6yle bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde Allah’\u0131n madd\u00ee, manev\u00ee, gizli ve a\u00e7\u0131k sonsuz nimetleri i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu g\u00f6recek ve bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce mevcut s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n hafiflemesine ve belki de yok olmas\u0131na sebep olacakt\u0131r. Fakat ilim sahibi olmak gibi y\u00fcksek derecelere ula\u015fmak konusunda insan kendisinden \u00fcst\u00fcn olana bakmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, onun ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu y\u00fcksek makamlara kendisi de ula\u015fs\u0131n. Lakin bunu yaparken her hangi bir haset durumunun ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in kesinlikle o \u015fahs\u0131 severek ve ona dua ederek bunu yapmak laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, kalp huzura kavu\u015fsun ve saadetle dolsun.<\/h2>\n

20-\u0130nsan\u0131n kendisine fayda getiren bir i\u015fle ve faydal\u0131 bir ilimle me\u015fgul olmas\u0131: \u015eeyh Abdurrahman Es-S\u00e2d\u00ee (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: \u00c2sh\u00e2b\u0131n\u0131n bozulmas\u0131ndan ve kalbin kederli \u015feylerle me\u015fgul olmas\u0131ndan meydana gelen stres ve bunal\u0131m\u0131n giderilmesinin sebeplerinden biri de ki\u015finin faydal\u0131 ilim ve i\u015flerle me\u015fgul olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Zira kalp bu gibi faydal\u0131 i\u015flerle me\u015fgul olursa bunal\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015fmekten uzak olur ve kendisini \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcye sokan \u015feyleri unutur. B\u00f6ylece huzuru ve mutlulu\u011fu yakalayabilir.<\/h2>\n

\u00ad<\/h2>\n

21-B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck amellerde yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131rmak: Saadete ula\u015ft\u0131ran sebeplerden biri de ki\u015finin elindeki mevcut i\u015fine \u00f6nem verip ge\u00e7mi\u015fte meydana gelen \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc olay ve durumlar\u0131 unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Peygamberimiz (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcden Allah’a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi unutup gelece\u011fi imar etme konusunda ciddi olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insan mutlaka ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olacak ve bu ba\u015far\u0131 ona huzur ve mutluluk verecektir.<\/h2>\n

22-\u0130nsan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelen musibetlerin etkisini azaltmaya gayret etmesi: Abdurrahman Es-S\u00e2d\u00ee \u015f\u00f6yle demektedir: “\u0130nsan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelen \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 izale etmenin yollar\u0131ndan biri de bu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n hacmini ve tesirini azaltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin ki\u015fi meydana gelmi\u015f olan olay\u0131n varabilece\u011fi en k\u00f6t\u00fc ihtimali d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve kendisini bu sonuca haz\u0131rlar ve kendisini onu kabul etmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bunu yapt\u0131ktan sonra m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca bu olay\u0131n etkisini azaltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ki\u015finin, yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu bu faydal\u0131 gayret sonucu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve kederi yok olacak, en az\u0131ndan hafifleyecektir.<\/h2>\n

23-Kalbi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek ve kalbin evhamlara ve hayali d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere kap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek: \u015eeyh S\u00e2d\u00ee (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: “Kalp hastal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n ve hatta bedensel hastal\u0131klar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ilac\u0131 insan\u0131n kalbini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmesi ve kesinlikle onu bo\u015f evhamlara, hayallere kapt\u0131rmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Zira insan ne zaman kendisini korkulu hayallere ve evhamlara kapt\u0131r\u0131rsa, mutlaka kalbi bundan tesir g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla insanda korku, deh\u015fet, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, keder, karamsarl\u0131k, \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fc, kalp hastal\u0131klar\u0131 gibi ruhi ve bedensel hastal\u0131klar meydana gelebilir. Fakat ki\u015fi tam manas\u0131yla Allah’a iman edip, gere\u011fi gibi O’na g\u00fcvenip tevekk\u00fcl eder de kendisini bo\u015f evhamlardan korur, \u00e7ok zay\u0131f ihtimalleri b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp korkun\u00e7 bir tak\u0131m sonu\u00e7lar elde etmeyi bir tarafa b\u0131rak\u0131rsa bu durumda Allah’a olan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve umudu artar ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla meydana gelebilecek ruhi ve bedensel hastal\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mi\u015f olur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu ki\u015fi bu \u015fekilde kalbini kuvvetlendirmi\u015f, g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcne \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc yerine sevin\u00e7 doldurmu\u015f ve tarifi zor bir huzura kavu\u015fmu\u015f olur.”<\/h2>\n

Hayat\u0131n merdivenlerini t\u0131rmanmada cesaretli olan insan\u0131n g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fc daralmaz, fakat korkak insan\u0131n g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fc daima dard\u0131r, onun kalbinde ferahl\u0131k ve sevin\u00e7 bulamazs\u0131n, bu t\u00fcr insanlar hayatlar\u0131ndan asla tat alamazlar. Bu t\u00fcr insanlar sadece – hayvanlarda var olan- cinsi lezzeti almakla yetinmek durumundad\u0131rlar. Korkak insanlar ruh\u00ee huzur ve mutluluktan mahrum bir \u015fekilde hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek durumundad\u0131rlar. Ayn\u0131 zamanda bu huzur ve mutluluktan cimri ki\u015filer ve Allah’tan ve O’nun zikrinden y\u00fcz \u00e7evirmi\u015f olan her gafil ki\u015fi mahrum kalmak durumundad\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek manada Allah’a iman edip, O’na hakk\u0131yla g\u00fcvenen insanlar\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve karamsarl\u0131k esir almaz, zira sebeplerin yok olmas\u0131yla sonu\u00e7lar da ortadan kalkacakt\u0131r.<\/h2>\n

24-Kalpte sakl\u0131 olan k\u00f6t\u00fc duygu ve kini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p atmak: Sevgili karde\u015fim, kalpte ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 beslenen k\u00f6t\u00fc duygu ve kin iyi insanlara yak\u0131\u015fmayan k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u0131fatlardand\u0131r. Kalp bu k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u0131fatlardan kurtulmad\u0131k\u00e7a huzur ve rahata kavu\u015famaz. Zira haset ve kin kalbi daralt\u0131r, onu eritip bitirir.<\/h2>\n

25-G\u00f6z\u00fc, kula\u011f\u0131 haramdan korumak, \u00e7ok konu\u015fmay\u0131, \u00e7ok yemeyi, \u00e7ok uyumay\u0131 ve s\u0131k\u00e7a kalabal\u0131klara kar\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 terk etmek: \u0130bn Kayyim (Rahimehullah) \u015f\u00f6yle der: (Bu say\u0131lan \u015feylerde (\u00e7ekemezlik, kin beslemek v.s.) a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 gitmek kalbe ac\u0131, keder, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 verir, kalbi ku\u015fat\u0131r, onu hapseder ve onu s\u0131kar. Hatta d\u00fcnya ve ahiret azab\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu kalpte meydana gelen bu v.s. hastal\u0131klar sebebiyledir. La ilahe illallah! Bu say\u0131lan afet \u00e7e\u015fitlerinin hepsinden nasibini alan ki\u015finin kalbi ne kadar s\u0131k\u0131lacakt\u0131r!? B\u00f6yle bir ki\u015finin ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 tersliklerle doludur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla b\u00f6yle bir kalbi ta\u015f\u0131yan insan kesinlikle \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcden ve kederden kurtulamayacakt\u0131r. La ilahe illallah! S\u00f6z\u00fc edilen g\u00fczel hasletlerden nasibini alan, bu g\u00fczel hasletleri elde etme gayesiyle \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan ve bunlardan elde ettiklerini koruma azminde olan bir ki\u015finin hayat\u0131 ne kadar huzurlu ve ne kadar g\u00fczeldir. B\u00f6yle bir ki\u015finin Allahu Te\u00e2l\u00e2’n\u0131n \u015fu \u00e2yetinde bahsetti\u011fi nimetten nasibi ne b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr:<\/h2>\n

\uf05d\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0623\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0641\u0650\u064a \u0646\u064e\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064c\uf05b<\/span><\/h2>\n

“Muhakkak ki g\u00fcnahlardan uzak duranlar cennette nimetler i\u00e7indedirler.” 27<\/a> )<\/h2>\n

Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) kalp geni\u015fli\u011fini sa\u011flayan s\u0131fatlar\u0131 tam manas\u0131 ile kendisinde bulunduran ve kendisine uyulmas\u0131 gereken en m\u00fctek\u00e2mil bir insand\u0131r. K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim, d\u00fcnyada ve ahirette ger\u00e7ek saadeti ve huzuru yakalamak i\u00e7in Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rnek almada gecikmeyiniz!<\/h2>\n

Saadet konusunda toplad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bilgiler burada noktalanmaktad\u0131r. Mutlulu\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcren vesileleri sayarken \u015eeyh Abdurrahman Es-Sad\u00ee’nin “El-Vesaili’l-M\u00fcfide li Hayati’s-Sa\u00eedeh” adl\u0131 eserinden \u00e7ok faydaland\u0131m. Y\u00fcce Allah’tan bizleri ve sizleri hem d\u00fcnyada hem de \u00e2hirette mutlu olanlardan eylemesini, yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fumuz bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kendi r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalardan eylemesini niyaz ederim! \u015e\u00fcphesiz onun her \u015feye g\u00fcc\u00fc yeter!<\/h2>\n

\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/h2>\n

\u00d6ns\u00f6z 2<\/h2>\n

Mutlulu\u011fun Tarifi 3<\/h2>\n

Mutlulu\u011fun T\u00fcrleri 5<\/h2>\n

Ger\u00e7ek Mutluluk 6<\/h2>\n

Bedensel Mutluluk 9<\/h2>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc Mutlulu\u011fu 13<\/h2>\n

\u015e\u00f6hret, Makam ve Diploma Mutlulu\u011fu 18<\/h2>\n

Mutlulu\u011fa Ula\u015ft\u0131ran Vesileler 22<\/h2>\n

Allah’a iman etmek salih amel i\u015flemek 23<\/h2>\n

Kaza ve kadere iman etmek 25<\/h2>\n

Allah (Azze ve Celle)’yi bol bol anmak 27<\/h2>\n

Allah’a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmak 28<\/h2>\n

Saliha e\u015f 29<\/h2>\n

Namaz 31<\/h2>\n

\u015eer’\u00ee<\/span> ilim talebi 32<\/h2>\n

S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veren sebepleri ortadan kald\u0131rmak 34<\/h2>\n

\u0130nsanlara iyilikte bulunmak 34<\/h2>\n

Kederlenmeyi S\u00fcrekli hale getirmemek 34<\/h2>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flere kanalize etmek 35<\/h2>\n

Nimetler ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar aras\u0131nda k\u0131yas 35<\/h2>\n

Zikir ve dualar 36<\/h2>\n

\u0130yi bir kom\u015fu sakin bir ev 37<\/h2>\n

Salih insanlarla oturup kalkmak 39<\/h2>\n

Yap\u0131lan iyili\u011fin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Allah’tan beklemek 39<\/h2>\n

\u0130\u015fleri zaman\u0131nda yapmak 40<\/h2>\n

Faydal\u0131 i\u015fleri yapmada gayretli olmak 40<\/h2>\n

Peygamberimizin tavsiyelerine uymak 41<\/h2>\n

Faydal\u0131 u\u011fra\u015f\u0131 veya ilimle me\u015fguliyet 42<\/h2>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flerde yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131r 42<\/h2>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelen musibetlerin<\/h2>\n

etkisini azaltmaya gayret etmesi 42<\/h2>\n

Kalbi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek 43<\/h2>\n

Kalpte sakl\u0131 olan k\u00f6t\u00fc duygu ve kini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p at 44<\/h2>\n

G\u00f6z\u00fc ve kula\u011f\u0131 haramdan korumak 46<\/h2>\n

\u0130\u00e7indekiler 46<\/h2>\n

1<\/a> Yani bir insan hidayete ermeyi samimiyetle isterse Allah onu bu iste\u011finde muvaffak k\u0131lar. Yine bir insan sap\u0131kl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fmeyi samimiyetle isteyip bu konuda her t\u00fcrl\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fc ameli yapmaya gayret ederse, imtihan gere\u011fi Allah onu da bu iste\u011finde (d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fc duruma raz\u0131 olmaks\u0131z\u0131n) muvaffak k\u0131lar. (M\u00fct.)<\/p>\n

2<\/a> (Bu hadisi Tirmizi rivayet etmi\u015f vb. hadisin hasen- sahih oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

3<\/a> (Z\u00fcmer:22)<\/p>\n

4<\/a> \u0130bn M\u00e2ce rivayet etmi\u015ftir. N0:4141. \u015eeyh Alban\u00ee<\/span> hadisin hasen oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

5<\/a> “Cevlet\u00fcn fi Riyad\u0131’l-Ulema Bi \u0130htisar” adl\u0131 kitaptan nakledilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

6<\/a> Cevlet\u00fcn Fi Riyad\u0131’l-Ulemai<\/p>\n

7<\/a> Tehz\u00ee<\/span>b\u00fc Medaric\u00fc’s-Salik\u00ee<\/span>n.<\/p>\n

8<\/a> (Muttefekun aleyhi. Buhari:No:16- M\u00fcslim. No:42)<\/p>\n

9<\/a> (M\u00fcslim rivayet etmi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

10<\/a> (R\u00e2d:28)<\/p>\n

11<\/a> (<\/span> T\u00e2ha:124)<\/span><\/p>\n

12<\/a> (M\u00fcslim rivayet etmi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

13<\/a> (M\u00fcslim. :1467)<\/p>\n

14<\/a> (\u0130bn-i Hibban (c.9 \/340 No:4032)<\/p>\n

15<\/a> (El-M\u00fcstedrik:2684).<\/p>\n

16<\/a> (Hakim:3282. Hakim isnad\u0131 sahih demi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

17<\/a> (Ebu Davud:4985. Alban\u00ee sahih oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

18<\/a> (Nesa\u00ee<\/span>:3939. Alban\u00ee hadisin hasen ve sahih oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir.)<\/p>\n

19<\/a> M\u00fcslim.<\/p>\n

20<\/a> El-Vesaili’l M\u00fch\u00fchimme Fi Hayati’s Sa\u00ee<\/span>deh.<\/p>\n

21<\/a> (Hakim. No:1877,\u0130bn Hibban. No:972, \u0130mam Ahmed M\u00fcsnedinde rivayet eder.)<\/p>\n

22<\/a> M\u00fcslim.2625.<\/p>\n

23<\/a> M\u00fcslim:46.<\/p>\n

24<\/a> (Hakim: M\u00fcstedrik:7305)<\/p>\n

25<\/a> (\u0130nsan:9).<\/p>\n

26<\/a> (M\u00fcslim:2963)<\/p>\n

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